Teh Scottie

How long does it take for me to update? 10 weeks

2009-05-05T14:10:34Z

So yeah, its been a while and what's more my other entry was rather cryptic anyways.

Oh well.

Life is actually going very well, but it;s always more of a surprise to me when it is not. It occurs to me that not everyone is on a path where they know, regardless of the here and now, that they are heading towards what is better. Most people try and figure out exactly where the path is going, get frustrated when they can't, then just give up on the whole thing: choosing (trying) not to care, or resigning to the fact that wherever they are heading is probably bad. But no, I won't pretend to know where I am going. I just know that a year from now I am going to be happier, better.

And now to quote a quirky 90s tune:
Those here without the Lord how do you cope?
Because this morning we all mourned like those who have no hope..

That being said, no path is easy and my life hasn't been easy. Living with people is a challenge, but the other day I was listening to a girl talk about roommate trouble and I was amazed. The trouble that happens in Prepare House is some serious deep stuff. Just one example is how I have been forced to face how my family has always played favorites (my dad, my mom's parents, etc.) and that has always hurt me deep. My brothers and I and my cousins and I were always stacked against one another. And while I always thought in my head that I would never let that happen with my children, I never recognized how it had just naturally worked its way into friendships. I say things to friends that make them feel like they need to compete with other friends, live up to expectations that other people I am friends with have filled. It's terribly destructive, and I apologize to anyone reading this who has felt this way.

I was hardly aware of it, and it nearly cost me my friendship with Colleen in light of my closeness with Laura. So, hey, big wake up call and now I'm the better for the conflict, the conversations with tears, and the reconciliation. Plenty of other things have happened like this semester to all of is. It's like were learning how to living in a community where we are not our own focal point, but we focus on something else that ultimately puts us together.

People talk about dropping the "I" and focusing on others. But that has its own problems, us who will make idols out of everything (including each other). We in the house are experimenting with dropping the focus on I, dropping the focus on each other, and instead taking up the same focus on the same God. God, who ultimately puts the focus back on each other, back on us.

Then I hear Devon talk about how her roommate doesn't leave her room when she talks on her cellphone and how that is unbearable. And not to say that it isn't, really. It's just...humans are funny. We aren't mean to live with each other like that, I don't think. And maybe we aren't meant to live with each other like this....but I can't help feeling we're on to something here in good old Johnson house.

Also: I need a job on top of my campus one. Please please please hire me Lindsay Windows

Postcards

2009-02-23T00:00:51Z

okay, so I'm a jerk for reading all your live journals but then never updating mine. So here goes it!

I'm back in Minnesota and I love my housemates, even when there are 48 hour periods when i hate them for making me get rid of my rats. But beyond that, oh goodness what life is going to be after graduation I feel will have to work hard to compete with living with these girls.

I was an emotional unstable wreck coming home, coming back from Japan. Joe and Jenna and different and its being diffused now, but only after I learned to be patient. Guys God is amazing. That's all I can say, really, about any pickle I've found myself in. But yeah, thats winding down. And my sure footing has returned, as of about a week ago.

Remember that time I was going to be an anthroplogist, go to graduate school aftere one and a half more years of school? I received a postcard from Japan today that could easily change it all.

But its okay, because I hadn't had my heart set on it, and I knew it wasn't set in stone. If it were, I wouldn't have kept telling God he could change it anytime he wanted. And he certainly called me on it.

This is big. This could be nothing, nothing at all. Or it could be what I do with the next 9 years of my life, at least. Or it could be a healthy medium of huge, that is, it could simply another year of laying down a foundation.

Kaley pointed out my self-defeating ness, and my fear of failure. And how stupid it is. Thanks BBF.

Hello Internet World

2008-12-03T07:25:22Z

So I am a walking stressball. I have two different kinds of stress. One is attached to relationships and the other is attached to money. I'm well familiar with the relationship one, and I think over the past couple of years I've reached a point where I've learned through enough painful experiences the way that I should play my cards. The money stress is fairly new and I know that I'm learning and growing and all that, but sometimes I just wish it wasn't now.

Anyways, Friday was an interesting mixture of the two, and it didn't end so well for me (or probably anyone else for that matter).
I guess I continue in the ways of my Dad in terms of how I deal with it (close up, walk away, get out) and as much as I know that isn't okay... I don't know, I'm tired? And I don't know what else to do.

So looking back at this semester, which I guess I've had to start doing as of late, I realized that I didn't walk in desiring to open up to anyone and...well, I didn't. Sometimes I'll be a bit envious of the relationship that Joanna and Phil have, for example, and other times I'm glad I didn't go there. I'm a naturally honest person, I'm certainly not one for falsehood, but I guess I shouldn't kid myself and mix me being honest about things with the idea that I'm being open. I can wax poetic forever, but that doesn't translate in me laying my soul bare.

So after 4 months what have I learned? Many things of course, but especially this. The reason why Kaley, Colleen, and Jenny are so precious to me is because they did what no one did before. I didn't desire to open up to them either, not truly, not fully. But they chased me when I ran. Colleen put it nicely when she said "We love you and there is nothing you can do about it." That's called unconditional love, and some will scoff at it and say, those are nice words but they'll fall away when things turn uphill. But believe me when I say that I tested it, and those crazies hung on, through all my daddy issues and protective walls and worst moments. They won't waste any time in noting that its not a love built on their own strength, of course.

Lisa kind of commented on my perpetual niko-niko ness. But I guess I am more concerned with what people do when I'm not smiling. And I am one f'`n hard nut to crack. Stressball.

(but he says in a whisper, someday there will be no more walls)

Undercurrent of Hope

2008-11-05T07:41:32Z

There was once a time that me and my best friend made a purity covenant and I could barely go a month before I broke it. But she didn`t love me less or love me more. So now I am writing it out by hand, signing it and sealing it with ink and tears. Because its not a covenant that was made to deprive of us something, it was made to keep us from hurting ourselves. And I went and really hurt myself.

Nagano was great, seeing Hannah for the first time in 2 years and being able to talk with her for the first time in 3. Zeke is a great kid who is going to grow up and do things we would never have dreamed of. Seth is awesome too, but in a way that clashes with me because of the part of me that is so insecure. But I`m changing, and so are my relationships with most people, for the better. One highlight was Friday night when we stayed up for the second night in a row to at least 1 am, and she and I prayed together. This is the first time I have prayed face to face with a person in more than 2 months. I told a friend the other day that I haven`t cried once since I`ve been here in Japan, which is kind of a return to normal for me but also a little strange in light of how much crying I`ve done this past year. But the truth is I cried once in September, but not as much as I wanted to. Colleen typed her prayer in AIM and I cried as much as I could let myself, sitting in J building in a computer lab. I can`t describe how lonely I was and what that meant to me.

I miss singing outloud to worship God. As loudly and passionately as I like, no outside limitations, no inside limitations. It`s something I got to do this past weekend. Vacation indeed. Ive been stumbling upon such awesome music but singing in paper thin walled Japan is a no-no. Let alone singing my heart out.

When I get home Laura and I are going to create some music. I`m looking forward to it. We're so shy around each sometimes, othertimes not. It`s funny to think how my relationship with her, which is so awesome, stems directly from so many so many tears and battles with my insecurities and belief in self. Then when I got finished with my tantrums and my depressions He simply pointed to her and said "This is why" and from there I have a friend like I`ve never had and never will.

Sunday night after I got back the crew headed out to the park. We barely drank, but it kind of made Troof or Troof an especially sweet time. Ever wish you could love people more? Like, love them so much that all their problems fade away and everything is okay for them, and they are just happy and at peace? Love them so much that their hurts are washed away but never forgotten? It drives me, this love. It`s impossible for me to believe it doesn`t exist. And it`s really all I see and hear anymore. A long time ago I forgot what life was like without it. I think Sunday night was the first time I used the term "undercurrent of Hope" at all, and I think I realize what it is that maybe I have that others don`t? It`s certainly nothing I acheived. I just wish Japan could see that is free and for the taking.

Anyone can see the road that they walked on was paved in gold. But where were they going without ever knowing the way?

Childhood

2008-11-05T07:16:47Z

I`m posting this like 3 weeks after it was written. I thought it was deleted but I guess it was floating around in LiveJournal`s memory this whole time?

Today I talked with Kaley on skype! It was a treat. I hope I wasn't too excessively rude in the computer lab.

Something that stuck out to me was at one point, Kaley was at an angle where I could see the sunroom in which she was chillin' in. In the panes of the door I saw a bunch of pictures and asked about them. I guess everyone in the House (Prepare House, that is) had put up baby/little kid pics in the window frames. Cute! Kaley mentioned how I need to bring some along to add when I show up in January.

Later on I went to the gym and was doing my thing. Lin showed up around 5ish, and he came over and asked me some cute questions about how much I could lift. I really like Lin, which is funny because when I first met him I couldn't stand him! He's this Chinese kid who went to the U.S. for college (Yale in fact) and then I guess decided to pick up Japanese on top of English. He has this kind of cute stutter in both english and japanese too. I haven't heard him speak in Chinese, maybe its there as well? I figure it's mostly the learning a new language thing though. He's in my new small-sized class, and today I was his partner for most of the day. Anyways, back to my story. So I asked him about basketball, which I knew he had been playing with someone, and he got really excited about the prospects of me playing. We exchanged numbers and so it looks like tomorrow I will be playing basketball before my Culture class which is AWESOME. Guys i love basketball. I'm from Connecticut, it's in my blood, it's in the air there.

So I'm walking back to the CJS locker room and I start thinking about the baby picture thing again. I have some rather sweet pics of myself as a youngin'. Some are on facebook, so go check that out. One of my favorites is this one of me playing soccer prob when I was around 4 or 5? Maybe 6 even. It was just like perfect timing, the ball is suspended mid air just above my foot, and I'm like in this freeze-frame slide position with my giant afro in line with the motion that the picture can only try and convey. I love this picture.

When I was little, I was active. I still am active, but I mean, back then too I loved to run and play and just be outside and do my thing. I remember being the fastest kid in my class in 1st or 2nd grade, but then again I was going to catholic school and I was certainly the blackest kid there. Well, anyway, I get a strange feeling when I look at older pics, before I gained a ton of weight. I hate the fact that I'm overweight and not because I had insecurities or self-image issues (though I had those aplenty until like, may of last semester haha). I hate it because I know how if could shed 100 pounds tomorrow I would be on the track the next, running because I love to run, sprinting in particular. I hate it because I know that I was a cute kid when I was younger and I feel like I let people down? I feel like I let my family down by gaining weight and not continuing the whole cute thing. Now my Grandma has to apologize for me. It's that sort of feeling. Stupid baby pictures.

The funny thing too, though, is I know that losing weight (which I'm doing now, I'm about 30 pounds lighter than the beginning of the summer, and only 15 of that is Japan!) I know I'm sort of losing a bit of a layer of protection. And I wonder how different my personality would be if I had stayed smaller. Would I still have this sense of humor? Would I be full of myself like most other people?

Just some thoughts I'm thinking.

tehscottie @ 2008-10-21T03:35:00

2008-10-21T07:54:30Z

So, considering that my wordpress blog is all happy times and good cheer, (mostly because I don't exactly know who's reading it and I choose to play it on the safe side), I'm going to revive this sucker and just maintain both. I also took a queue from dreamerneva and organized friend groups. I think this one is going out to all ya'll, but consider it a favor if you find an entry locked for whatever reason, you probably didn't want to read it anyways.

So what's been up with me? I'm over this whole Amy ordeal, or I'm getting there, and its time to move on with me life. It served a good distraction to the sort of drag I went through this September. Scratch that, it served as a mildly destructive distraction which, despite its nature, proved helpful. I just KNOW that it means somehow now the clouds will part and everything that I wanted will fall into my lap...but it won't matter because I don't want it anymore. i.e., Tom as of late. Tom is my friend from Yorkshire (The one in England of course) who I had a brief crush on for like a week in September, then quickly got over it. Somewhere along the way we became friends, and now he comes and spends time with me alllllll the time. When I was in giggly stage a month ago this would have been amazing!... but now I have no distinct reaction to it honestly.

But yeah, that happens with me alot. You know what also happens with me? In October I get this mad unbridled need to be in a relationship. Click a few entries back to last year around this time and listen to me go on and on about Josh. Things with Marlene weren't even settled around then. Freshman year it was Vwaire. And then for some reason it goes away by Fall break. Of course, I'm in Japan right now and there is no Fall break, but oh wait look at that Fall Break just started for you peeps out there at Gustavus. What the heck? Maybe its the fall weather, this whole season that just make me develop crushes. I think it goes back to Acquire the Fire days, late Septemeber fun developed into early October flirting. Well, whatever the reason, time to get back to the other 10 months of the year in which I am sane. Or...mostly sane. For real though, I feel bad for the friends I've made here who must think I'm like this all the time. Guyzzz i swear the other 10 months I am a LOVE NINJA. Now I just have to wallow in embarassment and shame for getting so caught up in this.

Quick side note: November 24 Chrono Trigger DS comes out!!!!! Ahh, I might just be zealous enough to buy both the Japanese version and English. This is awesome btw, for anyone cool enough to get why. When I am nerdy, I am hardcore nerdy.

Also, Ill prob be posting about my awesome homestay family, random japan stuff, etc. here: runscottie.wordpress.com

My japan blog!

2008-09-15T07:27:53Z

My blog in Japan:

runscottie.wordpress.com

Check it out!

Japan is coming!

2008-08-28T02:53:21Z

Every year August does this to me. It's hot. It's humid. It rains alot... and then fall comes. Just the beginning: a few leaves on a few trees change color. The stupid breeze that overwhelms me with nostalgia. Perfect weather. Blue sky, good air quality. August likes to remind me of what I leave every year now, to remind me of what I can't have for at least 2 more years.

I rode around on my motorcycle through page park and up around federal hill, and then back down woodland street towards BEHS, where on a clear day at the top of the hill you can see the lighthouse on Talcott Mountain in Simsbury. Today the air quality wasn't its best though; the farthest visible landmark was the two towers on Rattlesnake Mountain.

So yeah, I was all quiet and introspective today, packing away. I'm not really nervous or excited or anything. I mean, I've done this flight before, I've done this all before. The new exciting is going to pop up when I get settled and find out English isn't going to get me anywhere. But until then I might as well be packing to just go on a short domestic flight.

This summer I have just been pushing and pushing myself, I see a vision of who I want to be and I'm doing it, I'm going there, I'm becoming that person. But this summer has been really just about armchair daydreaming; this semester I will be faced with walking the walk. I think I'm ready? But God is really really pushing me on the finances thing right now. Gettin' me ready. But its tough.

Um....I feel like i didn't talk/see as many people as I should have before I left, but I had to get in Bristol peeps as well as phone convos with Minnesota peeps, so I did what I could. I will miss all you guyzzz!!

Oh, and for Japan I set up a blog the adress is runscottie.wordpress.com
check it out! :-D

blah

2008-07-13T04:36:22Z

So, i felt like I should write...but then I don't really have much to say...

This summer is interesting. I'm kind of regretting not just staying in minnesota, mostly because I am poor and need moneys, and if I had stayed I would have been guaranteed a job on campus, and then i'd have time to get a job in 'Kato too... Not to mention I am really missing pretty much everyone back at school. Still, i can't be that far from connecticut that long... who knows what I'll do when I end up permanently in Japan :-/

I'm rather bored here, I mostly just play video games, study japanese, and then go to work. Then I start over again. Whenever I end up actually hanging out with some peeps its just unsatisfactory...probably because I feel out of place. There isn't a single person here at home who I have spent more than maybe 2 days hanging out with. That number is increasing, but say last summer I had a few people I hung out with consecutive days, you know? Now its just different people one day to the next, and I kind of just feel third wheel. Im not blaming those people, schedules suck and you're less prone to hang out with someone when it takes effort to coordinate or whatever...

It's just lonely.

Expressive Language Disorder

2008-06-28T19:09:33Z

The other day I was working at Pchops, and it was a night where Shiann was also working, which is always fun because she's one of the people I can just joke around with the whole time, which makes work go by faster.

We we're joking around at some point, and I think she said something kind of odd but funny so I repeated it in my best Shiann voice and said something like, "this is my impression of you." So then she goes, "yeah, this is my impression of Diana...'Like, um, you know, um, like, yeah so...'" or something along those lines. Which made me laugh because it is very true. That is how i sound, haha.

It made me really introspective though, and I think I spent most of my break time that night pondering how, that is in fact the way I talk, and honestly I don't really notice it until someone points it out. I realize it is fairly annoying to have a conversation with me alot of the time. A girl on my track team gets really frustrated with me a lot because she will ask me a question and I guess I don't answer quick enough and coherently enough for her. One of my friends at school would sometimes make comments like, "try and say this concisely." Another friend would often point out how I tend to ramble, and that irritated him a bit sometimes.

And, like when Shiann did her impression of me, I tend to just apologize and take it... I don't like looking for pity, so i generally don't bother to explain about Developmental Dysphasia aka Developmental Aphasia aka Expressive Language Disorder aka whatever else its called.

It is very difficulty for me to talk, especially on the spot. Ever have a word at 'the tip of your tongue'? It's like that, except with every word. I do a few things to get by:

Remember when you were a kid first learning to read, and in class everyone would be reading some text and you would go down a line, one kid reading a sentence aloud, and then the next kid, etc.? And you would maybe count how many people until you, then look ahead at what sentence you would be reading, and then read it in your head a couple times, so that when your turn came you were ready?

Well, I do that with everything. And by everything, i mean as much as I possibly can. I also like to tell stories, because I might still have to use 'ums' and 'likes' as filler, but its simply a matter of recalling as opposed to coming up with something on the spot. Creating a sentence, I have the thought in my head by articulating it takes so much time, I'll get three words out, pause, three more words, pause, common phrasing, pause. To maintain at least some coherency I just fill the pauses.

Its frustrating. and I hate it. and a lot of times I wonder if its something I can beat, or something that will go away on its own (it won't) and if the fact that I am trying to become fluent in another language (japanese) isn't just a bad idea from the start. I can read and listen really well in japanese, but it's very difficult for me to speak it. Same as with english, essentially.

The most annoying thing is when I'm reminded of how I sound, because in all honesty its not something i notice 24/7, you get used to it like an accent haha. It makes me feel rather burdensome to people, to my friends. People will say things that kind of hurt, because I would change it if I could you know? Sometimes I'm rather proud that its not as bad as it used to be, I've really managed to get through life. Now that I'm out of high school I don't have to worry about inclass timed essays, which equaled death, and if it takes me upwards of 10 hours to write a 5 page paper, then thats my problem. And i adjust. The cognitive anthropologist in me finds it fascinating, and it's sometimes a tool in how I learn other languages, because I have to learn them a little differently than others.

Anyways yeah. I don't tell that many people, a handle of people at school know, but i'm sure maybe half have forgotten. I don't like to make a big deal of it.

I almost died today

2008-06-18T22:04:54Z

Today was an interesting turning point in that, my focus has officially changed. I can home and took a break from Japanese for a bit, I've been home what, almost 3 weeks? 3 and a half weeks?

Today I did little besides putz around the house and have my QT. Today I got a postcard from Japan from Nanzan University, basically just saying they have my materials and I'm officially officially accepted. The postcard was in both japanese and english and I didn't recognize some of the kanji. I guess it was then I was reminded I needed to step up and start studying. I'll have a placement exam during the first week of being in Nagoya, at Nanzan and I really really want to get into the 400 level class, because the 300 level sounds like half the semester I'd be stuck taking JPN-202 again, which would be boring and wouldn't challenge me... I feel like I'm somewheres inbetween the two levels and I want to get to 400 before i take the exam. (To put me in perspective, the courses run level 100 to 700).

I had gone to Borders the other day to check out the japanese reference stuff and wasn't too excited, so today i did some more research online and decided to also check out the Barnes & Noble that's right across the street from the Borders near West Farms. I had an enjoyable ride over, it was really nice out (maybe a bit on the colder side for June) and I even passed by Susie in her banana weilding mini-van on the way there!

My motorcycle was making squeeky noises when I brake... looks like I haven't been on the ball quite lately, as while I was riding i noticed my front brake fluid indicator. There was a line labeled "Low", showing that if the level of brake fluid was below that line, a refueling was necessary. There was no liquid in my indicator. At all. There should have been a line that said "Empty." At this point I was basically passing the mall, so I figured I'll go home and fill it up then.

Anyways, i putz around Barnes & Noble and it starts to rain. I scurry across the street to Borders and let the rain pass as I find a decent enough Kanji book and also decide on buying another Donald Miller book, To Own a Dragon. If you haven't already, you should read Blue Like Jazz. Mostly because everyone should, and also because Donald Miller is amazing.

The surface is most slippery during the first few minutes of rain because oil and dirt combine with water... It may be wise to avoid riding during the first part of a rainstorm because road surfaces are slickest then.

I head out of Borders and and decide I'm too lazy to head down the busy streets past the mall and so I decide to just take the highway back. The two straight away lanes are backed up for miles but luckily i just need to get into the right lane to get onto the highway. Suicide Note by Obadiah Parker is playing on my ipod.

As I speed happily past the other filled lanes of traffic a 15 passenger white van shoots through a break in traffic to get into one of the parking lots.

People just don't see motorcycles when they're making left turns. It's Darwinian. Something happens when a cage driver switches on his directional signal. The Cloak of Invisibility descends upon the motorcyclist and then there's a Bang!.

I slam on my brakes. Another car is right behind that van, attempting to get into the same parking lot.

Rear-tire skids can occur in quick stops or rapid speed reductions...when a rear tire skids, the ability to turn is lost.

My rear tire skids and I can't for the life of me remember....do I immediately let go of the rear brake, or is it that I do not let go under any circumstances? I know the rear brake skid is opposite of a front tire skid, in terms of what you do. Riding on my motorcycle it felt like I had a tail, and that tail was quickly moving to my right.

The biggest danger in any rear-tire skid is releasing the rear brake when the real wheel is out of alignment with the front wheel. You could be thrown off in what is commonly called a "high-side" fall.

A "high-side" fall is when you get thrown off the motorcycle head over the handlebars. One website describes it as the somewhat aesthetic way to die. You don't get tangled up in the bike, you just get tangled up with whatever you hit first: traffic, tree, pavement.

"Diana your problem is that when it comes to braking, it's like you have a lead foot," my dad says, marking points off my riding test during the braking portion.

It's cool, its fine. The van passes. I keep my foot down on the rear brake until i straighten out and I'm good to go on the highway. I wonder what all the 20 or so cars full of spectators are thinking. I wonder what would have happened if I had died right then, or gotten critically injured.

I better stop wondering because that car passing in the left lane I'm trying to merge into is going 20 miles faster than me and almost hits me.

I got caught in the rain on the way home.

But I was listening to this song:


Until we fall back onto the Great I Am
We’ll use up all we got, our love we will exhaust
Until we learn to trust in the God of Abraham
And give up what we got, all will be lost

:-D

It's good to be home...i think?

2008-06-05T01:28:48Z

Sooo I'm back home yay!

Got home monday night around 1 am, so tuesday was basically unpacking and today I did some putzing around. Good putzing around though, 'specially since when work starts up i'll have less time to take advantage of.

Oh, before i forget: Senior Week. So, hanging about on campus post-Finals was kind of nice, if anything because i didn't have to go through the hassle of packing while taking finals. It was super fun to hang out with Revelation! one last time, I'm really going to miss everyone like crazy! It's funny, my focus has started to turn toward Japan and away from Gustavus...and I'm okay with it. Still makes me a little sad to say goodbye to everyone and to know in the back of my mind that so much is happening minus me. :-(

Oh, and Student Leaders basically have to go through Hades during Senior Week. Especially the last day. Oh hey, let's have a buffet for 1500 people! In a room that only fits 800! And let's have it go one for like 3 straight hours! Oh, and once thats done and cleaned up...lets have CONCESSIONS outside for post graduation ceremony! We joked about making "I survived Commencement Banquet '08" tshirts, heh.

Let's see, so then my dad comes and picks me up, oh and his cat died on our way back. That's kind of sad, but i never really got to know his cat because he got it for christmas...so ive only been around like 2 weeks since he's gotten it. Still, always sucks to see 'em go.

Wow, this is like Rich Hilbert -style stream of consciousness here, I'm not even giving people good transition phrases. Okay, here's one:

Speaking of changes,

I've realized lately that I've changed alot this year, okay thats not a recent acknowledgement at all, but NOW i'm seeing how little I had changed through my freshman year. Of course, little stuff kind of changed, but really after Freshman year it was still me in high school with some shallow alterations. This past year though has really worked on me, in a good way. But coming home again is just pointing out how different a homecoming it is this year. Maybe this is typical sophomore year return, buts its more like all the stuff I've been through this year, props to Jesus.

I have friends who I can be real with, and so now theres this sort of content I have with all the ones i can't be totally real with. Not that I act fake around people, its more like the people you just don't swing the doors open full blast for, because you know that wouldn't turn out good. So instead you just kind of occasionally open up. That can be pretty lonely though, when you are antzing for a fire-hydrant style dam burst of reality. But I got that this year, 'specially with Kaley who rocks, Laura and J Snydes too...good stuff. So coming home i am both aware of how i've changed and feel no pressure to like, have to shout it out at the top of my lungs. It'll probably become more and more apparent to people who know me, but not in an isolating polarizing awkward way. Yay!

So yeah. God rocks. Basically. I know i didn't say it in those past two paragraphs but that's what I've been saying, read behind the lines people!

7 weeks ahhhh

2008-05-19T06:10:31Z

Whoa, so 7 weeks!?!?! Crazy. Crazy lazy, that is.

alrightie, so, I don't really know where to start really so I'll just pick up from....YESTERDAY

err...okay how bout Friday night when I saw Prince Caspian! yay! It was awesome except the stupid stupid stupid Susan/Caspian bits they put in for some God-awful reason. Seriously, i think in the book shes like 15. It doesn't even make sense. The events of the book take place over like a week tops. Not exactly much time for a relationship to foster! >:-o

Besides that though, good stuff! We had a bonfire that night too, and I got to meet Kaley's two sisters. Cool cats. I gave Bekah a ride on the motorcycle and then Joe. I love JOE! He has really just grown so much in the past few months, and I now I feel so comfortable around him. Awesome. I also love guys who are secure enough in their manhood/masculinity or whatever to ride on the back of a motorcycle. Yay Joe!

Saturday was funsies, took my loft down and now my bed is back on the floor. Its kind of really sweet actually.

I'm tired of this LJ crap. Man I'm lazy. I'll add some more later. Talk about next year a bit.

p.s. I'm coming home June 1st! I stay a week late at school to work. Of course, much better to work here at 12.15 an hour than rush home to just...work at 8.15. :-D

back to school, fool

2008-03-31T04:29:35Z

I'm back at school!!! yay!

Jenny and Colleen picked me up from the airport...they are awesome and I just love those guys. I can really be myself around them, which is sweet and a rarity really. Think of how many people you can be yourself around, I mean truly yourself? And be yourself without the "okay, they're going to be fleeing from me any moment now..." feeling. Maybe its just me, but that doesn't happen too often. I think i have that with Kaley too, but shes not here! Shes still yet to come back from Nicaragua! I hope her flight goes okay and all that.

I putzed around and played Lisa's piano for a bit...I really struggle with the two hands at once thing. Piano & Drums = my weakness. That's why i really want rock band drums! must...improve...

I got homework done.

I love james mcavoy! must see more of his movies...

um, not much else to say? I hope this week goes well. I'm most likely going to be seeing a doctor about my stupid knee. argggh, lets hope my track season can still go as planned...hopefully!!??!?!

Investigating the Scene

2008-03-24T20:26:21Z

Ever come back home from being away in a long time and you have to investigate all the new stuff thats happened, like when your mom cleans the room and accidentally throws out your favorite blank while you were gone, or something like that? So, ive gotten used to doing that every time i come back from school, at both my moms and dads.

So my stepmom and dad are getting divorced, or are divorced, i dont really know. my dad hasn't actually told me, but i mean, shes gone and everyone else is like "shes gone." So today im just putzing around the house and i feel like im investigating a crime scene or something. Just a couple of minutes ago I tried closing the door to my dad's room, and i discovered the door knob wouldn't turn, and the actualy doorknob latch thing was popped out awkwardly, and the wood around the doorknob was all disfigured. Looks like that door got slammed...in the heat of a fight maybe?

My stepsister's room, which consequently was my room growing up, is all basically emptied out. Going in there evokes funny feelings.

This stupid house is part nostalgic part new, I don't know what to do with myself when I'm here. :-/
Same with the stupid yard.

First time in how long!?!?

2008-03-23T01:31:42Z

Hello to those who read this: sorry for falling off the face of the earth.

And also, I'm crazy lazy, so let me sum up the past two months:

It was awesome, it was at times crappy, I grew, I cried more than I'd like, I laughed more than I could have imagined I could and then, I got close to God in a way that made me realize I have much more to go...

Yeah it was good times. Now I'm back home for Spring Break, lonely as I have ever felt. It would be easy for me to leave and not be lonely, but I wouldn't be home if I were to go about my usual 'avoid family and my home at all costs' routine. If that were the case, I would just not be here right now! No, im home because i've decided to stop running...

...and it is so hard.

The first night back I just ended up laying in my bed crying for about 10 minutes. I'm not even sure why. I just was overwhelmed with how lonely I am here. How utterly and simply lonely I am. Now that my stepmom and stepsister isn't here its just different....not that i necessarily miss them persay (i never got close to them so that when this day came and they weren't here...it wouldn't hurt or anything...Mission accomplished I guess)...its just that its so apparent that it is only me here now with my Dad...and i dunno. Every ounce of myself wants to take off, not deal with it, I don't know.

Well yeah, im not really this depressed guys, i still love life and God and everything. I am just facing a huge huge rock wall that I have to scale, and when i'm here back home its like i'm miles and miles away from people who are willing to scale it with me, or at least help me the best that they can...

'Tis chilly

2008-01-17T18:06:27Z

Proclaim was awesome! we had this big scare at first because the sound peoples were taking a while to set up, and the monitors were going in and out along with some of the main speakers, and then we werent really hitting everything during practice, and it was just all around shakey. But then we took like 5 minutes out of our time and prayed, and I think from there we just went out and played and IT ROCKED. People actually jumped up and down. at proclaim. crazzzzy.

This weekend = more practice, and making a final decision about going up to the Mall of America on sunday, which it looks like i might not be able to do :-(

Its -3 degrees out today, -15 with wind chill. Yay minnesota, heh.

Revelation! is coming up this saturday, and me thinks its going to be awesome. That is all.

Busy and Goofy

2008-01-14T20:54:45Z

Wow my last entry was crappy and sad, with a hint of depressing. Why is it that 90% of Live Journal entries are half emo/half venting? Oh wells, enough of that.

I have been back at school little over a week and things have been busy! And by busy i mean BUSY. I have class 10:30 to 12:30, track @ 3:30-5:30 (+/- time dedicated to weightlifting) and then in the evenings either Revelation! practice or Prepare or Small Group. Intense, if I might say so myself. The weird thing is that its cool by me. sure i miss being able to sit in my room and play video games without feeling rushed, and now I actually have to deal with my procrastinating problem because I just don't have time to procrastinate like the good old days. But im not tired; im getting at least 7 hours of sleep every night.

The band of course, is what's taking up my thoughts, I guess. I (or should i say God!?!?!??!) have surrounded myself with some rather awesome people, who i just love spending time with. hopefully they like spending time with me...but the nice thing is I think its rather evident that they do. Practice is hard, ongoing, tiring, but at the same time SO much fun and SO very much worth it. I dont know if i mentioned this but we got asked to lead Proclaim all of J-Term. I ended up doing an acoustic set with Jenny on bass and Joe on the jenbae the first Tuesday, since we had only been back at school for 2 days. Jenny has only been playing bass for roughly a month, and she's rocking out. Why? Because she's just awesome like that. I really really admire her. :-D

We're playing Proclaim tomorrow and its a bit nerve racking but still cool. I know we'll do great, and the most important thing is that we go up there and worship God. ahhh exciting. Man this is the problem with huge spaces between entries, going into detail is so long and intense. I think ill just resolve to write more often. This entry was rather sporadic and all over the place, hehe.

The King and I

2007-12-30T05:56:32Z

I just watched The King And I for the first time, rather decent musical. I think the music was meh, with the exception of that one song everyone has heard "Getting to Know You", but the story was rather interesting. The Siamese rendition of Uncle Tom's Cabin aka "The Small House of Uncle Thomas" was rather neat.

But anyways, back to I guess my life. This Christmas break was rather anticlimactic, and I've been trying to figure out why. Well, I guess I've come to a few conclusions.

The first is that I had an amazing hectic yet awesome end to the Fall semester, starting with Prepare's 24 hour prayer and working its way to the formation of Revelation! band and whatnots. Revelation! would be the name of our new every other Saturday night worship extravaganza that shall be coming to a local Gustavus campus near you. Its being done via Prepare, but with Proclaim's backing (and respective instruments, heh). I mean, what we've got here is a great group of people that ive stumbled upon and God's backing, and great CRAZY stuff has already happened, in like a period of 3 weeks. Now lets hope i dont do something stupid and screw it all up, heh. But yeah my point is, in the face of all that excitement, taking a break sucked.

Second, i've been working a ton, which I know does not exactly make me available for spontaneous hang out. But i need the money, and I haven't worked any closing shifts anyway, so its not like its really detrimental to me hanging out with friends. Which leads me to....

Third, I've been here 10 days and I've really hung out with people only 4 nights. which, given that Christmas is busy, I guess is understandable, the only thing being, last year I'm pretty sure this number was 10 nights. And I guess by comparing I've disappointed myself. Friday night was fun, me and Don hung out and had some really neat conversation. I hope we can do it again sometime soon. He also was the only person who, since I've been back, has actually invited me over/out someplace to hang out, to specifically see me. Which is cool and makes me feel special. Steve and I kind of just mutually decided to hang, and i know that he wanted to see me, but its nice not to have to assume that people miss you/ want to see you, and just be asked...which leads me to....

Fourth, I'm kind of sick of calling people up to see if they want to hang, then get either No's or kind of yes's but barely, or even worse: the "sure" but then the next day "nope sorry". Ouch. And of course, other people are working, and are doing tons of things, and its the holidays, but seriously come on now. I leave in less then a week. I understand that its hard to get a hold of people, and I dont want to come off as being ungrateful for getting to spend the time I have had with peoples, but I miss you guyzzzz.
And there is this little part of me on the inside that is like "Hey, if someone really cares about me and wants to see me, then why aren't they calling me? And why aren't they making this happen? are they content with running into me at some large gathering of peoples and dropping a line or two of conversation? Should i just be content with that and then scurry back to school?" Leading me to.....

Fifth, I'm going to school like 10 states away and I am out of the loop. And its not from a lack of effort, I mean i read LJs and talk it up with people to hear about whats going on. But im not getting much reciprocation. No invite to Kayla's going-away-to-the-army party? Ouch. It makes me wish I was back in minnesota, and I HATE minnesota. Love my school, and friends, but im sorry but that state just does not click with me.

So, should i just give up? Admit that I probably wont get to do what I want to do with people, and just spend the next 6 days chillaxin and getting errands and Studying Abroad apps done? Go to Max's and Taste of China by my lonesome? Admit that Im feeling left out in the face of feeling entirely "in" back at school? Cry a little and then grow a pair? We shall see. I got rather stood up today, and Im feeling irritated. I dont feel sorry for myself, this is my own doing what with going so far away. Welp, I've got a bright future ahead of me, and Im not going to sit here and forget that I am cool. Even if going forward means finally letting go of something that probably doesnt want to be held on to.

p.s. my stepmom just got a new kitten. Its pretty cute. yeeeeeeeeee :-D

poems?!?!?

2007-12-09T06:29:52Z

I realized today what it is about Fall here in Minnesota that is so lacking, and Yes, i realize that we are definitely in winter, as the single digit temperature can show. But it was a moment this past Wednesday when I was reflecting on another time I was homesick, namely when I was in Japan.

It was just after a typhoon and the wind was really strong, but not typhoon strong or anything, just the build down from the big typhoon. And so even though Okinawa is a lot like Hawaii or maybe a Caribbean island in terms of temperature and climate, instead of it being beastly hot and humid per usual in the summer, it was weirdly cool and very windy. Very Fall-ish. And it brought up memories of home.

Here at Gustavus, im on a campus that's basically on top of this giant hill that basically just flattens at the top, a sort of plateau I guess. And everything in general is flat here, so we have wind. But what I realized is missing, and why that time in Japan made me miss Home and the Falls here in Minnesota don't, is that they don't have the big tall trees. You know the sound of the trees in Connecticut when its a windy day? It's a loud sound, really, in terms of background ambiance. They don't have that here.

And its funny, because despite the wind and the temperatures that I like, its like we skipped over Fall, which is my favorite season.

I really miss home. What sucks is that I go home during winter break and thats it. Theres no leaves, and less wind.

Oh, i wrote a poem that I kind of liked, during this 24-hour prayer room thingie that we had on campus. It was a really sweet deal, and i suck at poetry in fact if you asked me on any other day I'd tell you I hate poetry. This seemed appropriate though, i guess.

          You who are choked by the thorns
          Do you dream of the sky?
          Do you long for the growth and the height
          Of those who stand nearby

          From my mouth comes a double edged sword
          The cut will hurt but it will set you Free
          Oh you who are choked by the thorns
          Don't you long for the sky?
          Won't you dream of the sky?

          And when you are cut free
          There will be harvest
          a hundredfold
          Oh, your stalks will reach out and touch the sky

Today I feel as though I've never wanted to break a promise any more than I do right now.

The Beginning

2007-11-18T19:57:40Z

Well, I guess I'd like to start with a giant "SORRY" to those who i left hanging over Operation: Diana Likes A Boy. Schtuff has happened, not really relating to Josh specifically but that has basically had me prioritize in a way that does not include him. But it was a fun October.

That being said, one of the most amazing things to happen to me this semester is that through Prepare Jenna and myself started a small group, with one main thing in mind: cut through the b***s***, then love each other. Of course we didn't say it like that, but a community of people who share a love of God in common...and are serious about sharing parts of ourselves with others...its going to happen. Prepare has been having a big boost this year, we've like doubled, and mostly because of the AWESOME freshman that have started to come. For those who don't know Prepare is kind of under the radar on campus, there's Proclaim which is a full band worship kind of group that gets like 150-200 people that go regularly...other bible studies and whatnot are popular...but Prepare is the one that people still haven't heard of or whatever.

But its kind of awesome in that way. Anyways, so the small group now consists of roughly 16 people, making it not longer small but rather pudgy, but we split up into groups and its all got this small group feel basically. Can I just say I've come to dislike bible studies that are like, one person gives a little lesson and then discussion? Because, that's what i did in middle school and early high school. Thats baby stuff, honestly. I really don't want to insult anyone here, because I realize that those groups are important in their own way. And they work for a lot of people. But for me, I need something more.

No, what I want is a group where we can talk about whats really going on and not have 80% of the group be silent while two or three people tend to talk. No, I walked into it saying, If you're in this group...i want to know whats going on, and I'll wait however long I need to for you to tell me. And when you do, I'm going to feel so honored that you shared with me, and I'm going to pray with you. And I know this will be vice versa.

Intense, i suppose, but its something I feel like I've found. We've only met 5 times so far, Thursday nights. Everyone's at different places dealing with different stuff, but we all keep coming and we all keep praying. There's nothing i can say right now to give it justice really... But the scary thing is that when you agree to be honest and open with people about yourself, you start pulling crap out that you haven't touched in a long time. Knowing that there are people who will listen and love you not matter what is scary if you really think about it. Because it means I can't use the "no one wants to hear this" excuse.

My relationship with my Dad is utterly complex and pretty much entirely destructive. There are things I have never said, never told anyone, that have sat in my head for years until these past few weeks. Its been easier to distance myself from him and my family and be happy. But I know that can't work in the long run. I can't go on in my life crying every time I see some dumb movie with a good father, or occasionally cry myself to sleep because I keep thinking of something that happened 7 years ago. And I can't pretend that it doesn't affect my relationships with others, especially guys. No, there is some stuff that I need to sort through.

I need to rebuild this relationship that I spent years running from, and it is so unfair that I have to take the first step. But if i don't, then who will? So, anyways, this is just The Beginning.

This week, if time permits, i think im going to share the final things I really just haven't told anyone.

P.S. Despite the great sadness emitting from this entry, my life has being going really well and this year at school is going great. I am growing as a person in ways that are beyond my own comprehension, and I'm as happy as I've ever been. And most importantly, I opened up a little and found 16 friends.

As if this week could get more awesome...OH HOLY CRAP IT DID

2007-10-18T15:31:22Z

So, can I just say that I've been smiling so much, as in I just can't stop smiling, that my face kind of hurts a bit. I woke up and BAM smile on my face. Awesome.

Where did I leave off? Sunday night? Well we have a lot to cover then, in OPERATION: DIANA LIKES A BOY...episode 3.

Tonight's episode begins with Diana slaving away at her job as Student Leader in the Deli at the Caf. Having found herself without her usual student slave...er worker, she is forced to handle a crazy Midterm-week late night rush while simultaneously cleaning. Josh arrives. And then HE FLIRTS WITH HER. The whole "can you make a sandwich? you put on what you think I should have, something good" followed by me being all for the love of God dont screw up this sandwich! and then asking him "um, do you like blah blah?" to which he replies "i've never had it, but go ahead put it on. whatever you put on this im sure ill like it"

Aaaaand eye contact and smiles. Awesome.

Granted, this is a relatively small ordeal. But when coupled with TUESDAY....

Tuesday I went over to Co-Ed to watch Reign Over Me with J Snydes, (its a good movie btw, awesome Shadows of the Colossus references too!) and Alyssa had no homework so she came along. We were watching it in CF office/hangout space when low and behold Josh shows up with one of his 2A guys to play ping pong. Iiiiim pretty sure his face lights up when he sees me, could be just me but J Snydes agrees. I ask him if he's going to Proclaim and he says he forgot about it, but we basically agreed to go walk over to alumni together.

Fast forward to then and we (josh alyssa and I) walk over to Alumni and as Alyssa puts it "they chit-chatted the whole way !" We get to Proclaim and its kind of awkward because Im not sure if he usually goes, and or if theres people he usually stands with etc. So we talk for a bit and then he eventually wanders to some other people, and Im like "cool, i guess he probably comes to proclaim with them usually" but THEN HE COMES BACK. TO STAND NEXT TO ME. FOR THE ENTIRE PROCLAIM. This is important because at Proclaim that night we had a guest singer/rapper dude Agape, and at one point he told us to hug 4 people around us, MEANING I GOT A HUG FROM JOSH. Im not a touchy feely person at all...but I loved it. Awesome.

But wait! It gets better and significantly less "is this just in my head!?"
WEDNESDAY = Prepare which basically means leadership meeting/eating dinner together at 5:45 all the way through Hard Questions and then Prepare @ 8 until like 9:30ish. Prepare was sweet as usual, of course, and i sat either next to josh or close by, so near the end we split up into small groups to pray, and i was in his group. We finished up kind of early so we ended up just talking and joking around, yay fun. Yay eye contact and smiles.

After Prepare we usually relocate to the CAF, and low and behold I end up walking over with Josh. I remember that were talking and i was asking him and Laura a question...and then I think Laura basically just disappeared, like she was just gone and I have no idea where she went. But i didnt even realize until later because I WAS TALKING TO JOSH. We run into J Snydes at the Caf, she is overjoyed to see us hanging out and being awesome independent of anyone else, yay. I have my guitar, and a couple of weeks ago I wrote her a song for her birthday, so J Snydes says,

"Hey, since you have your guitar...maybe you'd want to accompany Josh back to Co-Ed and come to my room and play for me?"

That J Snydes. So shifty. Soooo awesome.
Me: "Sure"
J Snydes: "Josh you can totally come up to, if you want"
Josh: "Well, since im already accompanying her over, sure"
Me: (internally) EEEEEEEEEEE!

We hang in the Caf for a bit and then head over to Jamie's, where I play two songs that I wrote, which Josh hears for the first time. Yes i was flaunting my abilities, No, you cannot blame me for it. J Snydes basically just works her magic and keeps us in the room, so by the end of things its been an hour. Basically, it was flirting and it was smiling and at certain points we were just talking and like Jamie was sorting through pictures to put up on her walls, so at certain points it was like she wasn't there hehe. She was showing us some of the pictures and I should mention that he did the "lean over shoulder to see the picture, oh did I indirectly touch you?" thing a couple times. Ahhhhhh! I could go into more details but basically it was awesome.

We finally are like "we need to go because its late and its wed night" and Josh mentions that he had to go to the bathroom like an hour ago. YOU HEAR THAT PEOPLE!? I had temporary precedence over bodily functions! That's got to mean something right? Awesome.

Jamie lives on 4th floor, Josh lives on 2nd....but he walks me all the way down do the doors. Oh man. Awesome end of an awesome day.

Did I mention I'm having lunch with him in like an hour? Oh, and then tonight after small group we're going to hang out, probably to watch the movie Canadian Bacon. Awesome.

tehscottie @ 2007-10-14T02:02:00

2007-10-14T07:18:45Z

Wellllll apparently there are some people out there who would like me to update my live journal more often, and well, I suppose things as of late have been a little interesting.

Operation: Diana Likes A Boy is going along smoothly, I'm happy to say, although I'm still scared. Major props to my buddy J Snydes for keeping me in line, I honestly owe her sooo much. As she likes to say, "Diana your just a little chicken s***" which is entirely true of course, so every time I'm like "ahhhh relationships are scary run away!" she keeps me in line.

J Snydes is also crazy sneaky and in just the right place to help me out, which thank God she seems very interested in doing. She happens to be a CF in co-ed with....the boy im totally crushing on. Basically this weekend was homecoming which equals crazy drinking and parties which equals all CFs on duty, half-staff. Which also means that someone gets stuck with the on-duty until 3 AM shift, which of course blows. So you know, I told Jamie that I'd come hang out with her during her ungodly shift, seeing as I had to work until 11 this past Friday night and by the time I got out everyone was either in the middle of doing stuff, or not planning on doing stuffs. It was entirely innocent really, i had no Josh motive I swear.

That being said, he was totally there and even though i think he was free to take off at like 12, we (which was me josh j snydes and erin) played ping pong and then phase 10 until 2:30am!!! holy craps. The highlight of the evening, by far, was ironically during the first like 2 seconds of me being there.

*I enter CF office/hangout space*

Jody (Head Resident): "Hi, I don't think I know you!"

Diana: Hey, yeah I'm Diana. I'm Jamie's friend, here to hang out. (or something like that.)

Jody: Oh are you one of the girls from 2nd Gibbs?

Diana: Yeah--

Josh: Yeah, the best one.

Diana: (internally) EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!! (externally) haha

J Snydes: (something to cover my immediate overwhelming joy and lack of coherent thought)

*End Scene*

Tonight, which is saturday night, i also headed over, even though for a while i didnt think I'd have time to swing by Co-Ed. Turns out Josh was on duty tonight til 3 (poor guy, no sleep this weekend.) It was fun, but highlight of the evening was when I asked him for his phone number and he more than willingly gave it to me, excitedly even. I then blew a moment of flirtation by probably seemingly shooting down his excitement, even though I mostly was just trying to play it chill in the face of his overwillingness, because I was surprised and also still basking in the awkwardness that is asking for a phone number of someone you really like.

That being said, i got his number yay, i might have given off an overpowering friend vibe (arg) but then agaaaaain, Im just getting this from J Snydes who reads into things waaaaaaaaaaaaaay too much. But thats her job.

As for me, I feel like ive reached my girly-ness levels of the evenings. Tomorrow the news is going to be talking about how today we reached record highs of girly activity.

Sorry this entry is kiiiinda crummy, and i also should have probably covering the AWESOME 2nd Gibbs Apple Pie Extravaganza that was tonight, but lets face it, this is where my head is! :-D I'll write again, and hopefully more coherently, laters.

Mixed Feelings

2007-10-07T06:37:30Z

I think the problem with growing as a person is you can't run and hide in your "this is how i do things" bubble. I'm sure that didnt make any sense so let clarify. Say you eat sandwiches everyday. Then some random day you have pizza and you LOVE IT. Suddenly, Pizza becomes a part of your diet. But then your friend goes "hey, try this hamburger." And you are scared. But you can't just be like "I only eat sandwiches," because thats a lie, you've already branched out and tried new things and found that new things aren't scary.

Okay that probably just confused everyone more. Basically this LJ has been serving as a vent for my personal relationships and the crap that goes along with them. And you know what, September basically sucked because of those relationships, err that one relationship in particular. But i came out of it standing tall and I'm really proud. I got a huge wake up call, that basically went like this:

Ring ring

"hello?"

"Diana?"

"Yeah whatup?"

"This is life. You need to grow up."

"..."

"oh, and breakfast at 9?"

"...sure."

Click.

But here is where my analogy comes into play. I really put myself out there, emotionally, like I've never done before. And I got burned, badly. However, as much as I want to run and go back to just joking around with people and avoiding connecting with anyone, I know that I can't. As crappy as the relationship turned out i got a taste of being high on someone's priority list, of knowing that you are on someone's mind a little more often than anyone else, and that rocks. And i can hide behind fear of rejection and low self esteem, or try and fight to regain what I lost, but i can only do this for so long.

Basically, I like a boy. (*audible gasp from reader*)
Which is nothing new, I've obviously had many crushes on many boys at many periods in time. My usual way of dealing was ignoring it, making sure the boy had no idea so as to not alienate myself from them, and the waiting for the crush to pass. It sounds kind of silly, I guess, but it was a lot easier than say, trying to pursue a relationship. Honestly, it was working for me.

What scares me is that in this particular case with this particular boy I can see it as something feasible. To quote Flight of the Conchords, "conditions are perfect." He is just too nice and friendly. He loves God just too much. He and I have too many mutual friends. He asked me for a ride on my motorcycle. WHO DOES THAT!?!?! Boys don't ask girls for rides on the girl's motorcycles unless that guy is just SO CUTE and SO NICE and SO ODDLY SECURE IN HIS MANHOOD and (important point here) SO NOT GAY. It made my heart smile.

And so I'm getting my stupid little hopes up. And I actually told some friends about how I feel. And I hung out with him tonight (which took some forwardness on my part...).

I'm so far out of my "this is how I do things" zone its scary. But I guess my comfort zone is just changing, isn't it?

---------
TIME TO FALL IN LOVE EVERYONE!!!

What is the hold up?

Schtuff

2007-09-25T13:56:47Z

I haven't written in how long now?

Whoops.

So, school has been going good, i mean for the most part. Two things: My Zen Buddhism and Japanese Culture class royally sucks. Its taught by a Chinese Buddhist monk...and before you say "oh cool" realize that a) this is her first year attempting to teach it and b) she doesn't have a complete handle on english yet. Notice i used the word "attempting." This class is so frustrating and now I've just found out that on the same day I have a group presentation due, a group presentation that we were told was going to count as our first 'essay/project', I ALSO have an essay. Am I going to have to write with little kid words so she even understands it? That was a low blow but seriously, I'M LEARNING NOTHING and that's whats pissing me off. I'm considering writing an email to the head of the religious department. Everyone in my class is frustrated...perhaps we can make some sort of changes here.

The second things is a dealie I've been having with a friend, let's see if it turns up. I spent the first 3 weeks of school frustrated and confused and ready to just bail on the idea of having any sort of close relationship with anyone. Too painful. But now I'm back into it and thus I am scared. Because even though we've talked things out and things are looking up, there's very little keeping me from ending up down and out just like a couple days ago. Am I stuck in a never ending cycle? Are all close relationships this hard? Or is it me?

I miss Bristol alot, which is funny because how many people all throughout high school wanted nothing more than to bail out? Not me though, I've always loved my home. There hasn't been a lot of rain here for a while so the fall colors (that are coming in early btw! Septemeber Minnesota? Really?) are sort of blunted. This makes me miss home. It also irks me to no end that I look out across the valley that my school kind of overlooks and there is nothing behind it. Nothing. It just stops and there is sky. On a high point back home, like at Bristol Central, I can see miles away. I can see into Farmington from the complete other side of Bristol. Hills behind hills behind hills. Yeah, i know im glorifying it because I miss it.

Meh.